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It just works.
Except when it doesn’t.
Am I broken?
Tam Lin, A Scottish Ballad
We are all monstrous in some way
So are our partners
Relationships are born of fantasy projections
Reality is more complicated
“Unfinished business”
Resentment
Disengagement
Marriage is a crucible
Crises are inevitable and necessary
Seldom or never does a
marriage develop into an
individual relationship smoothly
and without crises. There is no
birth of consciousness without
pain.

                   —C. G. Jung
There is no love without hate
Marriage is not for everyone
Find your own way
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Guggenbühl-Craig, A. (1986). Marriage: Dead or alive (M.
   Stein, Trans.). Dallas, TX: Spring Publications. (Original
   work published 1977)

Jung, C. G. (1983). Marriage as a psychological
    relationship. In H. Read, M. Fordham, G. Adler, & W.
    McGuire (Eds.), Aspects of the feminine (R. F. C. Hull,
    Trans.). Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press.
    (Original work published 1925)

Winnicott, D. W. (1971). Playing and reality. London:
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Relationships and Individuation

Notas do Editor

  1. No right or wrong answer.\n\nHow many been in a relationship?\n\n
  2. How many ever broken up?\n
  3. One of the main questions in therapy: do other people go through this?\n
  4. \n
  5. You see things in the mirror others don’t\nFixed ideas about self...\nUnlovable because...\n\n
  6. They also have their fixed ideas\n
  7. Cultural: movies, rom-com, etc.\nDevelopmental: Harville Hendrix\n
  8. Clarify terms\n“marriage” ~ long-term relationship\n
  9. \n
  10. You aren’t the person I married\n
  11. Stalemate\n
  12. Individuation\n
  13. Winnicott: can the other survive my aggression?\n
  14. \n
  15. \n
  16. \n
  17. For some, long-term commitment is it\nFor others, serial monogamy\nFor others, don’t ask, don’t tell\nMany different arrangements\n
  18. \n
  19. \n