1. Agile Coaching? Sure thing!
What about Life Coaching
in Agile Thinking?
REA Group
02/09/2013 | Agile Coaching Circles Meetup Melbourne
@realestate_au
Victoria Schiffer @Erdbeervogel
Monday, 2 September 13

2. “You don’t have to be
sick to become better!”
(Michael Josephson)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/tambako/ (Tambako the Jaguar)
Monday, 2 September 13

3. “The devil you
know is better
than the devil you
don't know!”
“But is there a
devil at all on the
new road?”
Joseph O’Connor
& Andrea Lages
Monday, 2 September 13

4. http://www.flickr.com/photos/tambako/9352616577 (Tambako the Jaguar)
Support
Monday, 2 September 13

5. http://www.flickr.com/photos/gnuckx/8076464389 (Gnuckx)
forward
move
Monday, 2 September 13

6. goals
“Setting a negative goal is like
going shopping with a list of things
that you do not want to buy.” Joseph O’Connor
& Andrea Lages
http://www.flickr.com/photos/smitty/199457812 (smitty42)
Monday, 2 September 13

7. http://www.flickr.com/photos/carbonnyc/8456219474 (CarbonNYC)
The only person you should try to be better
than, is the person you were yesterday. (Unknown)
You!
Monday, 2 September 13

8. http://www.flickr.com/photos/tmab2003/4277896845/ (TMAB2003)
It’s
You!
about
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9. Filter
http://www.flickr.com/photos/kevinpoh/4545094285 (kevinpoh)
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10. 1st
Exercise
“Perspectives”
See next slide
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11. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:My_Wife_and_My_Mother-in-Law.jpg
Monday, 2 September 13

12. Beliefs
http://www.flickr.com/photos/baileysjunk/3631094798 (BaileyRaeWeaver)
“What the thinker thinks,
the prover proves!”(Robert Anton Wilson)
Monday, 2 September 13

13. “Life is
10% How
You Make
It and
90% How
you Take
It“
(Irving Berlin)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/mabahamo/4751785617
(Manuel Bahamondez H)
Choice
AttitudeMonday, 2 September 13

14. http://www.flickr.com/photos/peter-trimming/6611749509 (Peter G Trimming)
Pull,
not push
Monday, 2 September 13

15. ‘But’ is the
great eraser.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/snakebiteheart-/6847637842 (SnakeBite Heart)
Monday, 2 September 13

16. http://www.flickr.com/photos/bluehillranch/6420193921 (305 Seahill)
Empowering
Limiting
Monday, 2 September 13

17. Pressure Words
Abstract Words
shouldmust have to
need to
ought to
failure
relationship
stress
want to
don’t want to
Choice
frustration
success
Unconsidered
Opinions
better
obviously
clearly
worse
Overgeneralizations
never
nobody always
can’t
can
everybody
Beliefs
Monday, 2 September 13

18. http://www.flickr.com/photos/criminalintent/5229017560 (Lars Plougmann)
“Life begins at the end of
your comfort zone.”
(Neale Donald Walsch, Autor)
Monday, 2 September 13

19. There is a solution to every problem.
(NLP Presupposition)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/eriwst/2421129047 (eriwst)
Monday, 2 September 13

20. Anything can be
accomplished
when the task is
taken in small
enough chunks.
(NLP Presupposition)
Monday, 2 September 13

21. You cannot not
communicate
(NLP Presupposition)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/marcel030nl/2556824810 (Marcel030NL)
Monday, 2 September 13

22. The Meaning of Your Communication
is the response you get
(NLP Presupposition)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/markusthorsen/3091394736 (markusthorsen)
Monday, 2 September 13

23. “I didn't fail the test, I
just found 100 ways to
do it wrong.“
(Benjamin Franklin)
Failure
Feedback
is only
http://www.flickr.com/photos/mikeparker/1393311040 (Michael H Parker)
Monday, 2 September 13

24. http://www.flickr.com/photos/56380734@N05/5914710795 (Comrade Foot Jens Rost)
Every behaviour has a positive
intention.
(NLP Presupposition)
Monday, 2 September 13

25. http://www.flickr.com/photos/laserstars/908946494 (jpctalbot)
“You have
not yet
reached
the limit of
what you
are capable
of.”
Ability
Joseph O’Connor
& Andrea Lages
Monday, 2 September 13

26. 2nd (Group)
Exercise
“Listening”
See next slide
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27. Groups of 3
1 observing
controversial issue
Talk about
2 chatting
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28. Get your
out of the way!http://www.flickr.com/photos/angeldye/7967897282 (angeldye)
Monday, 2 September 13

29. http://www.flickr.com/photos/sparetomato/2641110677 (sparetomato)
“Most people do not listen with the intent
to understand; they listen with the
intent to reply.” (Stephen R. Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People)
Monday, 2 September 13

30. silence!
courage for
http://www.flickr.com/photos/paulholloway/2104762221 (Paul Holloway)
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31. http://www.flickr.com/photos/mcleod/7004084690 (Scott McLeod)
“Question everything.
Learn something.
Answer nothing.” (Euripides)
Monday, 2 September 13

32. Powerful
Questions
http://www.flickr.com/photos/hygienematters/5452837491 (SCA Svenska Cellulosa Aktiebolaget)
What...? How...? When...?
Why...?
Monday, 2 September 13

33. Fresh
Perspective
http://www.flickr.com/photos/mathias-erhart/280056079 (mathias-erhart)
What If...?
Monday, 2 September 13

34. http://www.flickr.com/photos/jakecaptive/3205277810(@boetter)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/-followthemusic-/7185470025(LaurenFinkelPhotography)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/popculturegeek/4878889504 (Pop Culture Geek)
challenge free
take
Joseph O’Connor, & Andrea Lages
Monday, 2 September 13

35. http://www.flickr.com/photos/visualpunch/8745184787 (visualpun.ch)
Monday, 2 September 13

36. http://www.flickr.com/photos/pagedooley/6861256042 (kevin dooley)
Meetings
Monday, 2 September 13

37. Decision
http://www.flickr.com/photos/inafrenzy/5787848646 (InaFrenzy)
making
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38. Performance
Reviews
http://www.flickr.com/photos/lifeontheedge/6871511101 (Marshall Astor - Food Fetishist)
Monday, 2 September 13

39. Conversationhttp://www.flickr.com/photos/gibbons/1400055656 (Esther Gibbons)
Monday, 2 September 13

40. Difficult Situationshttp://www.flickr.com/photos/31762350@N03/4090808706 (al_bee)
Monday, 2 September 13

41. Different people, great variety
http://www.flickr.com/photos/nagarjun/6387774307 (Nagarjun)
Monday, 2 September 13

42. Learninghttp://www.flickr.com/photos/telachhe/3342173731 (Tela Chhe)
Monday, 2 September 13

43. http://www.flickr.com/photos/jayneandd/4451411132 (jayneandd)
Success
Monday, 2 September 13

44. http://www.flickr.com/photos/kheelcenter/5279692906/ von Kheel Center, Cornell University
Happy Team
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45. http://www.flickr.com/photos/frenchy/30217136/ (Francois Schnell)
What are you
going to do as
a first step?
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46. http://www.flickr.com/photos/lennox_mcdough/4057851723(lennox_mcdough)
Experiments
Monday, 2 September 13

47. “Triumph is just a little
umph added to try.” (Tim Owens)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/stannate/3912535987 (stannate)
Monday, 2 September 13

48. disclosed
http://www.flickr.com/photos/kjfnjy/5249145754 (Ken and Nyetta)
“Coaching with NLP: How to be a Master Coach” by Joseph O’Connor, & Andrea Lages
www.goodreads.com/book/show/258916.Coaching_with_NLP
TED Talk: “Your body language shapes who you are” by Amy Cuddy
www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are.html
Manifesto for Agile Software Development
www.agilemanifesto.org
What The Thinker Thinks, The Prover Proves - 140 sec session, Stoos Connect NL 2013
www.youtube.com/watch?v=K4GLy_zJjcI
“Your Attitude Determines Whether Or Not You’ll Succeed”
http://www.businessinsider.com.au/attitude-determines-success-2013-1
“Strengthsfinder 2.0” by Tom Rath
http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/56454.StrengthsFinder_2_0
Secrets
Monday, 2 September 13

49. Thank you :)
Iteration Manager
& Life Coaching
Student
@Erdbeervogel
linkedin.com/in/victoriaschiffer
German for “Strawberry-Bird”, hence the avatar
Victoria Schiffer
02/09/2013 | Agile Coaching Circles Meetup Melbourne
Monday, 2 September 13