I learned many valuable life lessons through experiences. Some of the key lessons included learning that sharing my inner thoughts can be easier with strangers than intimate partners, that achieving goals requires commitment and belief in oneself, and that understanding others is not always possible but providing understanding is important. I also learned about my own strengths, the value of patience, and that both successes and failures provide important perspectives. Overall, living is a journey of continuous learning and discovery that builds the foundations for joy, love, and a fulfilling life.

1. What did I learn…

2. I learned that sometimes it is easier to share my soul with the whole world than it is to share it with someone intimate.

3. I learned that aspiring toward my desires takes true commitment and, a solid belief that my goals have legitimacy.

4. I learned that asking for understanding is sometimes impossible, but giving understanding is not.

5. I learned that trying to prepare others for what lies ahead, may confuse their innocence and slow down their progress.

6. I learned that saying no to someone else, even when they object can help them learn to say no in their own lives, when need be.

7. I learned that wanting and needing are hard to separate, but the difference is of great importance.

8. I learned that I am stronger than I thought I was, and that I need both strength and insight to function.

9. I learned that I will not always feel positive, but that, my down days give me perspective.

10. I learned that patience takes self-discipline, but its rewards are immense.

11. I learned that letting someone else’s laughter reach my heart is just as rewarding as saying something to make them laugh.

12. I learned that laughing after making a mistake Does not erase its valuable lesson.

13. I learned that appreciation of others, of life and of challenges Causes each day to be full and fruitful.

14. I learned that it is good to expect better of one’s self; but, not so good to stress over petty details.

15. I learned that living is not one huge moment of joy

16. It is the travel, and the unravel - the discovery of life, That builds foundations for joy and for loving and living.

17. Text: N.O. Tate Images: William Whitaker Music: Billie Holliday - Solitude Slideshow: honeycita2000Valparaíso, July, 20061st edition, July 2009