What Verbal Communication for Nurses is NOT
Intrapersonal
An interior dialogue with oneself
Interpersonal
A dialogue between persons with equal expectations for
personal gain
Social
Dialogue between peers for entertainment
Self-serving
Patient is focus-not nurse
Verbal Communication
Subject to misinterpretation
e.g. What does the sentence, “You cannot put too many
chocolate chips in chocolate chip cookies” mean?
Dependent on understanding of
language, slang, clichés
e.g. What does the sentence, “Do you have any bread” mean?
Dependent on intent, such as sarcasm
e.g. What does the sentence, “ I love it when James walks in
front of me and then slams the door in my face” mean?
Non-verbal Communication
Subject to cultural interpretation
More powerful than verbal communication
Easier to understand than verbal communication
Types of Communication for Nurses
Effective
Used to obtain necessary information in the quickest possible
manner
Therapeutic
Used as a means of promoting relief through verbally mediated
processes
Professional
Used to transmit important information
Effective Communication
Closed ended questions
What is your name?
Where does it hurt?
Yes no questions
Are you hungry?
Are you married?
Commands
Point to the area that hurts
Open your mouth
Therapeutic Communication
Open ended questions/statements
How are you?
Tell me more
Minimal encouragements to continue
Go on
Uh huh
Active listening
Therapeutic use of silence
Open body language
Used to help persons
collect their
thoughts, articulate their
feelings, and experience
relief through catharsis.
Therapeutic Communication
Examples of Facilitators to Communication
Using Silence
Accepting Yes, I understand what
you said
Giving Recognition Hello Mr. H. I notice you
shaved yourself this AM
Offering Self
I’ll stay with you a while
Giving Broad Openings
Tell me what you are
thinking
Go on
Offering General Leads
Facilitators to Communication
Restating Client “I can’t study. My
mind keeps wandering.”
Nurse “You are having
trouble concentrating.”
Client “What do you
Reflecting
think I should do about
my medication cost.”
Nurse “How do you think
this problem can be
addressed?”
Examples of Barriers to Communication
Giving Reassurance “I wouldn’t worry about
that if I were you.”
Better: “We will work
on that together”
“I don’t want to hear
about it.”
Rejecting
“I think you should take
Giving Advice
your medication.
Better “What do you
think would be best?”
Examples of Barriers to Communication
Approving or “That’s good. I am happy
Disapproving you did that.”
“That’s bad. You
shouldn’t do that.”
Agreeing or Disagreeing “That’s right. I agree.”
“That’s wrong. I
disagree.”
Making stereotyped
“Keep you chin up.”
comments
Asking “Why” questions. “Why are you crying?”