In what way does your own baggage affect the way you raise your children? The best thing you can do for your children today is to become less fucked up.

1. Does Your Baggage From
Your Own Upbringing Affect
Your Children?
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2. Becoming Aware of Your Own Upbringing
 How you think and act now are according to what your own
parents taught you as right or wrong.
 This process of social conditioning impairs your ability to
know what you really want.
 You live your life wearing various masks and these are what
your children see.

3. What does your upbringing have to do with
your parenting?
Your child will pick up all that
emotional and mental baggage
from your own upbringing—no
matter what you tell them.
Because children learn to do what
you do, not what you tell them to
do.

4. What’s the best parenting style?
Instead of focusing on the
external ways of improving your
parenting style, start with
changing yourself.
Be aware of your own emotional
and psychological baggage and
become less fucked-up.

5. How can I guide my child?
Guide your child the best you can, but don’t
put your child in a box that prevents him or
her from discovering what works for them or
what their real motivations or talents are.

6. How can I guide my child?
Give your child the opportunity to experience what works for
them and what doesn’t. And instead of telling them what’s
“good” or “bad,” express what you find “acceptable” or
“unacceptable” because moralizing perpetuates the habit of
seeking approval to feel good about oneself.

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