In this 5 minute lightning talk, Karen Lopez covers the reasons why women aren't submitting to speak at your IT event. For the most part, it's not you, it's them. Trolls, Imposter syndrome, time, confidence, perception, selection committees: they all have a role to play in why women fail to even submit an abstract for your event. You and your attendees can take steps to remove obstacles, real or surreal, so that women will step up to the podium.