This lesson was designed to after a look at the way Jesus talked to the woman at the well in John 4.

2. Seven Habits of Highly
Effective Christians

3. #1 – Make Social Contacts
•Jesus needed to pass through
Samaria. (John 4.4)
•Opportunities exist:
•Home
• School
•Work

4. #2 – Establish a Common Interest
•Notice Jesus’ first words (John 4.7-
8)
•Opportunities exist:
• Family
• Friends
•Work
• Recreation

5. #3 – Peek Their Spiritual Interest
•Peek their interest through their
actions (John 4.9)
•Remember Matthew 5.13-16
•Remember 1 Peter 3.15

6. #4 – Don’t Go to Far to Quick
•Jesus needed to explain His words
(John 4.15-16)
•Remember – Many need to know
Jesus before the know anything
else.

7. #5 – Do Not Condemn
•Jesus could has spent all day on her
adulterous relationship. (John 4.17-
18)
•Remember your purpose (1
Corinthians 5.12-13)

8. #6 – Stay on the Main Issue
•The woman tried to change the
subject (John 4.19-20)
•Remember your purpose (1
Corinthians 5.12-13)

9. #7 – Confront Directly
•Jesus confronted the woman with
who He was (John 4.26)
• Matthew 28.18-20

10. #1 – Make Social Contacts
#2 – Establish a Common Interest
#3 - Peek a Spiritual Interest
#4 – Don’t Go to Far to Quick

11. #5 – Do Not Condemn
#6 – Stay on the Main Issue
#7 – Confront Directly

12. Seven Habits of Highly
Effective Christians