CYD Permanent Campaign Talk

1. Relationships,
Sex, and Love for all Ages
CYD SFF Talk for Members
Claudia Nunes Nov 2015

2. Topics
• Let’s talk about Sex
• Understanding what is Sex
• Law of Attraction
• Spirit’s Gender
• Affectivity Commitment
• Family Relations
• Sexual Control

3. 200. Do Spirits have sex?
"Not as you understand sex; for sex,
in that sense, depends on the
corporeal organization.
Love and sympathy exist among
them, but founded on similarity of
sentiments."
SB Q 201

4. Let’s talk about Sex
• When talking about sexuality and sex it is imperative to mention that each
Spirit brings their own particular issues.
• Sex used to be a huge Taboo.
• Women had to be a virgin to get married. And many women were victims
for allowing themselves give into temptations.

5. Let’s talk about Sex
• It used to be such a disgrace to be a single mother that many women
committed suicide over getting pregnant.
• Abortion was also the dangerous way to get “rid of the problems” caused
by the Taboos of sexuality.
• Many bastard children hidden away from the regular lives, and even
abandoned.
• All these were the cause of the discuss with Sex, and the lack of
tenderness and Love.

6. Let’s talk about Sex
• But what is sex like today?
• The young is pushed to initiate in many forms of sexual activities in a
much earlier age.
• Experimentation is the norm for “building character”.
• Do parents really know what goes on in the social circle of their kids?

7. Let’s talk about Sex
• Are we as parents prepared to talk about the details?
• What should we be focusing on?
HOLD ON!!!!!
• But what is Sex after all?

8. Understanding what is Sex
• Any relationship generates an exchange of energy.
• Having a long conversation that involves emotions provokes an exchange of energy as
well as the free access of our Spiritual Companions among the people involved in the
exchange.
• Sex forms an energetic connection between the partners that is extended for a longer
period of time than the actual physical exchange.

9. Understanding what is Sex
• Casual sex in our society today is considered to be an adult choice that only needs to be
careful with the transmission of diseases.
• Is this really an advancement of our generations or a Trick provoked by our instincts.
• As far as the sexual act is concerned it is only an animalistic instinct.

10. Understanding what is Sex
• What type of people do we attract?
• Our thoughts and emotions are the things that attract everyone
around us.
• We may think we do not think about sex today, but the two
subjects that receive great focus from the inferior Spirits are Sex
and Drugs. Through those avenues they can influence us through
our main struggles and passions.

11. Understanding what is Sex
• A person interested in Casual Sex will majorly attract a person
interested in the same.
• When we have Sex our Centers of Force (chakras) are aligned and
totally connected.
• What kind of people are you connecting to? What about your
kids?

12. 60. Is the force which unites the
elements of matter in organic and
inorganic bodies the
same?
"Yes; the law of attraction is the
same for all." SB Q 60

13. Law of Attraction
• Like attracts Like.
• They did a study in UCLA that if you
can visualize your goals during the
sexual act, you increase the chances
of reaching it by a great percentage.
• So how many things are connected
when you have a sexual attraction.

14. Law of Attraction
• Your emotional State (thoughts, flaws, earns,
wishes, goals, …)
• Your energy Level
• Your willingness to accept the proposal.
• The equal energies on the being willing to share
this experience with you.

15. 201. Can a spirit, who has animated
the body of a man, animate the body
of a woman in a new existence, and
vice versa ?
"Yes; the same spirits animate men
and women."
SB Q 201

16. 202. Does a spirit, when existing in the spirit-world, prefer to be
incarnated as a man or as a woman?
"That is a point in regard to which a spirit is indifferent, and
which is always decided in view of the trials which he has to
undergo in his new corporeal life."
Spirits incarnate themselves as men or as women, because they are
of no sex and, as it is necessary for them to develop themselves in
every direction, both sexes. as well as every variety of social
position. furnish them with special trials and duties, and with the
opportunity of acquiring experience. A spirit who had always
incarnated itself as a man would be only known by men, and vice
versa.
SB Q 202

17. What is the gender of any Spirit?
• Spirit’s have no gender.
• They are neutral.
• Homosexuality is difficult to explain materialistically.
• Homosexuality can be easily explained when we factor in reincarnation.

18. What is the gender of any Spirit?
• The occurrence is growing in intensity and extension, with the development of
mankind, and the world sees, in actuality, in all countries, extensive communities
of brothers and sisters in that species experience, adding millions of men and
women requesting attention and respect, on an equal footing to the respect and
attention due to heterosexuality.

19. What is the gender of any Spirit?
• Gradually and collectively humanity will learn to understand that the concepts of
normality and abnormality leave something to be desired in the case simply
morphological signs, to rise as higher definition agents of human dignity, that
individuality itself exalts community life by his own behavior in support of good
or evil that causes depressed with the part that takes the game of delinquency.
The pure and simple spiritual life is governed by elective affinities are essential;
However, through time the spirit goes through rows of reincarnations, either in a
position to femininity, or in terms of masculinity, which is silted the phenomenon
of bisexuality, more or less pronounced, in almost all creatures.

20. Man's intimate duty is left to his free-will.
The pressure of Man's conscience, this guardian of
interior integrity, alerts and sustains him, but shows itself
frequently impotent against the deceptions of passion.
Duty of the heart, when faithfully observed, elevates Man,
but how can we define it with exactitude?
Where does duty begin?
Where does it end?
Duty begins exactly at the point where the happiness or
tranquility of our neighbor is threatened, and therefore
terminates at the limit we would not wish to be passed in
relation to ourselves.
GAS CH 17 item 7

21. Affectivity Commitment
• Need to find a balance.
• The laws of the universe will equalize and cause us to really love one
another.
• More important if Homo, Hetero, Metro, is to choose, Love, Respect
peoples, feelings, rights, decisions.

22. Affectivity Commitment
• Every time one person invites another to share this intimacy based on
trust and affinity, a circuit of forces is established between both , by which
both psychologically are feed spiritual energies, on a reciprocal basis.
• When one does not live up to their commitment, does not allow the other
to have the emotional balance that they seek.

23. Affectivity Commitment
• Marriage is an advancement of Humanity.
• Divorce is a human law that establishes the separation of what was
already separated.
• An unhappy relationship is some times part of our trials in incarnating on
Earth.

24. Affectivity Commitment
• Children – The Body comes from the Body but the Spirit does
not come from the Spirit. But by conceiving a child you have
taken on the commitment to assist with the child’s moral and
intellectual growth.
• Boredom at home
• Function of the Spirit to re-awaken the dormant love that united the
couple.

25. We ask each one whose heart has been hurt by
vicissitudes or deceptions, to study their own
conscience closely; to go back, step by step, to the
origins of each misfortune which is torturing them.
Like as not they will be able to say: if I had done, or not
done, such and such a thing, I would not be where I am
now.
GAS CH 5 item 4

26. Sexual Control
• Less evolved Spirits still live in a sexual vibration.
• More evolved Spirits have a more conscientious sexual view.
• It is important to avoid adventures that do not match with the level of the
relationship requested by both parties.

27. Sexual Control
• Trust has to be reattributed with Trust.
• Both parties involved must overcome each challenge seeking for balance
not to cause one to succumb into the darkness of insecurity and wrong
feelings that can grow exponentially.

28. Sexual Control
• Celibacy or Abstinence
• Should never been done because of selfish reasons, nor punishment.
• The sex life of every creature is sanctified ground for itself, and in the
future abstention, affective connection, family, celibate life, divorce and
other occurrences, in the field of love, are problems pertaining to the
responsibility of each individual.

29. We ask each one whose heart has been hurt by
vicissitudes or deceptions, to study their own
conscience closely; to go back, step by step, to the
origins of each misfortune which is torturing them.
Like as not they will be able to say: if I had done, or not
done, such and such a thing, I would not be where I am
now.
GAS CH 5 item 4

30. Remind yourself of He Who judges in the last instant,
who sees the innermost movements of each heart,
consequently forgiving many times the failings which
you censure and often condemning that which you
condone because He knows the motive behind all
action.
Remember also that those who clamor in loud voices for
others to be excommunicated, have perhaps themselves
committed those very same faults, if not even greater
ones.
GAS CH 10 item 16

31. • Sex is not a taboo but yet a great way to complement a loving relationship.
• Sex is a coupling of souls that unite in many ways.
• Law of Attraction
• Spirit’s Gender
• Affectivity Commitment is important since we need to be careful of other
around us.
• Family Relations are a result of sexual relations
• Sexual Control is needed in order to open our eyes when making decisions
• Everyone has the right of choice.

32. Therefore my friends, always be indulgent seeing that
indulgence attracts the like, calms and uplifts; whereas
inclemency only disseminates, drives away all calm and
causes irritation.
JOSEPH, a Protecting Spirit (Bordeaux, 1863).
GAS CH 10 item 16