1. How to Find a Wealthy Spouse?
Define your dream. How "rich," for instance, is "rich"? Do you simply
want to live comfortably and not worry about bill collectors? Or do you
want to live in the grandest mansion in the land and say "neh, neh, neh"
to anyone who was ever mean to you? And where does true love fit into
the equation? Before you start your quest, you need to ask yourself
whether access to a fabulous bank account would be worth a loveless
relationship or if you're willing to hold out for the real thing regardless of
his net worth.
1. Evaluate your desirability as a wealthy man's wife. Better yet,
recruit your most honest friends (females and males) to make a
2. detailed list of what your strengths and weaknesses are. You're
about to reinvent yourself and to do that you're going to need a
brutally honest appraisal of what you've got going for you. The list
should include your physical appearance, your hair and makeup,
your current wardrobe, your posture, your intelligence, your
vocabulary and manner of speech, your lifestyle, your job and
what you drive.
2. Identify which weaknesses you can start working on immediately
and which ones will take a while to achieve. Joining a gym,
getting a salon makeover, going through your closet and
watching the news and PBS instead of reality shows are things
you can do now. Improving your mind by going back to school,
redecorating your apartment, training for a more fashionable job
and trading in your clunker car will take more time as well as
more money.
3. Draft a budget and exercise the discipline to stick with it. Setting a
list of goals and working on them every single day will accomplish
more than just daydreaming.
4. Subscribe to high fashion magazines. Subscribe to "The New
Yorker" and "The Economist," too, and read them cover to cover.
If you're going to strike up conversations with wealthy captains of
industry, you need to know what they're reading and talking
about. If you've never really had opinions up until now, it's time to
get some.
5. Cultivate the art of listening. If you have to talk, ask questions
about your companion. Nothing makes a man feel as if he's the
most fascinating creature in the world than if a stunning woman is
picking his brain and being genuinely interested in his replies.
6. Attend gallery openings, visit museums, attend charity events
and go to concerts. This will not only enhance your knowledge of
art and music but also put you in the right circles to chat with
wealthy patrons. Don't be discouraged if the majority of them are
couples; if they find you alluring and lovely, they may have an
unattached brother, son, lawyer, doctor or business partner
they'd just love to introduce you to.
7. Take up a sport like golfing or tennis. It will not only keep you in
shape but you'll also be running into lots of well heeled
businessmen.
8. Identify some of the most upscale restaurants in your city and
start going there by yourself for lunch. Do not, I repeat, do not
take any girlfriends with you or you will render yourself
unapproachable. Nor should you take a book, a magazine or your
cell phone. There's something fascinating about a lovely woman
3. dining by herself, chatting pleasantly with the wait staff and
casually observing the world around her. Lunch is also less
expensive than dinner and projects that you either have a well
paying job or have the resources to do whatever you want
whenever you want.
9. Tip generously and be kind to anyone in a service occupation.
People notice. People talk.
• Cultivate friendships with successful business owners for the
purpose of networking but do not abandon the loyal friends
who have stuck by you through poverty and obscurity.
• Flirt, but not excessively. If someone is intrigued, they'll let you
know it. Don't turn your first encounter into an extended date.
Chat for as long as you feel comfortable and then politely
excuse yourself. If he wants to see you again, allow him to ask
if he can call you. Don't eagerly agree to whatever date he
suggests; charmingly tell him you need to check your calendar
and get back to him. If you're too available, he's going to
wonder why no one else is pursuing you. Men enjoy
competition. Be a woman of mystery.
• Discern from the start whether your dream man is single and
available. Be forewarned that the absence of a wedding ring
doesn't mean the absence of a spouse.
• Bide your time. The faster you rush into a relationship, the
faster it's going to unravel.
• Project confidence in everything you do. It is the most potent
aphrodisiac anyone can possibly own.
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