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Polite Fictions:
The Real Reasons Foreigners
Can’t Seem To Fit In Japan
By Todd Fong
                 Photo by Danny Choo /Flickr
Polite Fictions
Why Japanese and Americans
Seem Rude To Each Other

Nancy Sakamoto
Reiko Naotsuka
Photo by Shihchun Yen/Flickr


To the foreigner,

   JAPAN            can seem like
                    a world apart…
Extraordinarily
     MODERN       yet steeped
                  in tradition…
…a beautiful
but alien culture.
外人




     JAPAN
In                                                   Photo by schwong/Flickr


     every non-Japanese person is a “gaijin”: a foreigner.
                                     外人
Perhaps it’s because the Japanese see their culture as

                                     Unique.


                                      In many ways,
                                                 it is.
Photo by zero_point/Flickr
Every culture has its “polite fictions”, a set of
culturally-centric beliefs of how people should interact.




Many of the Polite Fictions of American culture are in direct
opposition to the Polite Fictions of Japanese culture.
日本人
AMERICAN



“You and I are equal.”   “I am your inferior.”
Obviously, Japanese people are not actually
inferior, but Japanese culture dictates that
it is polite for them to act as if they are.


 Not all Americans believe everyone else
 is their equal, but it would be perceived
 as impolite to treat others as inferior.


By now, you’re starting to see the problem.
The Japanese greet one another with a bow:
 Little eye contact
 Submissive posture
 Unassuming
While Americans greet one
another with a handshake:
 Direct eye contact
 Firm vigorous grip
 Assuming friendship
日本人
AMERICAN


    :-(           orz
              (I have failed you)
    (Sorry)
“My wife is an excellent cook.”

The
AMERICAN
         Thinks…


                             “My wife is a better cook
“Please come over and my
                             than yours.”
wife will make us dinner.”



                             The
                             JAPANESE
                                      Hears…
SENPAI
  先輩
  後輩
KOUHAI
Junior / Senior relationship
The
is nurtured in the education system, but can last a lifetime.

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Polite Fictions - The Real Reasons Foreigners Can't Seem To Fit In Japan (Draft - Part 1)

  • 1. Polite Fictions: The Real Reasons Foreigners Can’t Seem To Fit In Japan By Todd Fong Photo by Danny Choo /Flickr
  • 2. Polite Fictions Why Japanese and Americans Seem Rude To Each Other Nancy Sakamoto Reiko Naotsuka
  • 3. Photo by Shihchun Yen/Flickr To the foreigner, JAPAN can seem like a world apart…
  • 4. Extraordinarily MODERN yet steeped in tradition…
  • 6. 外人 JAPAN In Photo by schwong/Flickr every non-Japanese person is a “gaijin”: a foreigner. 外人
  • 7. Perhaps it’s because the Japanese see their culture as Unique. In many ways, it is. Photo by zero_point/Flickr
  • 8. Every culture has its “polite fictions”, a set of culturally-centric beliefs of how people should interact. Many of the Polite Fictions of American culture are in direct opposition to the Polite Fictions of Japanese culture.
  • 9. 日本人 AMERICAN “You and I are equal.” “I am your inferior.”
  • 10. Obviously, Japanese people are not actually inferior, but Japanese culture dictates that it is polite for them to act as if they are. Not all Americans believe everyone else is their equal, but it would be perceived as impolite to treat others as inferior. By now, you’re starting to see the problem.
  • 11. The Japanese greet one another with a bow:  Little eye contact  Submissive posture  Unassuming
  • 12. While Americans greet one another with a handshake:  Direct eye contact  Firm vigorous grip  Assuming friendship
  • 13. 日本人 AMERICAN :-( orz (I have failed you) (Sorry)
  • 14. “My wife is an excellent cook.” The AMERICAN Thinks… “My wife is a better cook “Please come over and my than yours.” wife will make us dinner.” The JAPANESE Hears…
  • 15. SENPAI 先輩 後輩 KOUHAI
  • 16. Junior / Senior relationship The is nurtured in the education system, but can last a lifetime.