In Lebanon, people are now going online more to find love and communicate with the loved ones who are far.
Ayman Itani, Think Media Labs CEO, says that email and texting are good ways to stay in touch for those whose relationship is already strong.
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U r gr8: Technology helps and hinders love
December 22, 2011 01:15 AM
By Brooke Anderson
The Daily Star
The debut issue of ON Magazine with a cover story, “Looking for Love Online.”
BEIRUT: As a tech guy with a stutter, Haytham Elkhoja says that going online has been the best way for him to meet women. In fact, that is
how he has found most of his past girlfriends.
“I used to stutter, so it was an easy way to socialize, because you have more time to think about your answers and your ‘tactics,’” says
Elkhoja. “You can’t just stare in front of a woman while you decide which joke to say, or which anecdote to tell. In front of the computer, such
as now, I’m choosing my words carefully. It’s slower to type than to speak, so you can think as you type.”
In Lebanon, as in many other parts of the world, an increasing number of people are going online to find
partners, stay in touch and flirt. It is often easier than approaching potential suitors in person, and the
"In the end, no one wants amount of time people now spend in front of their screens or communicating by smartphone has made
to get hurt or feel rejected, the practice relatively routine.
and it’s really easy to
This year, the word “sexting” – the practice of sending sexually explicit text messages via mobile phone
control your self-image
–became part of the Oxford English Dictionary. And according to a 2009 Stanford study, today, around 30
through technology."
percent of new couples in the U.S. meet their partners online, often on dating websites or on Facebook.
“I’d say Facebook is important for dating anywhere in the world. It is where we craft the idealized image
of ourselves – even more so in a society that values outward appearance like in Lebanon,” says blogger
and author Nasri Atallah, who writes on Lebanese youth culture for his blog “Our Man in Beirut” and has published a book by the same
name.
“Well, there’s much more flexibility and freedom. You don’t have to go to a restaurant or movie theater or mall. You just talk online. It can
help you really get to know each other,” says Michael Oghia, author of the LOVEanon, a blog about love and relationships in Lebanon.
“Maybe in more conservative circles, approaching someone through social media is less invasive than doing it live,” Atallah says. “It’s also a
way to reinforce ties between communities that are here and those that are abroad, which also applies to romantic links,” he adds.
But as many people are using technology to enhance their self-images and stay in touch with romantic interests, many others use it to hide
their true personalities, and in some cases the access to information causes people’s insecurities to surface. (“Facebook stalking” has
entered the online urban dictionary, while Wikipedia has an entry on “cyberstalking” as well as a sub-entry on cyberstalking “of intimate
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