4. Pursuit_of_Happiness.org
They had been kicked out of their
old Kingdom by a mean witch who
promoted her subjects based on how
unhappy they were and how unhappy
they made their employees.
Because, if they were not
unhappy, they were not working
hard enough to make her rich.
5. Pursuit_of_Happiness.org
So the Princesses set out to change
the world. But even the Elders of
the new Kingdom had their doubts
about the profitability of a kingdom
with happy employees. So they hired
a Chancellor from the very large
Kingdom of Fortune 500.
6. Chancellor – Ray White
• 33 Years of Experience – 9 at C-Level
• 2 Fortune 500 Companies
• 6 Start-up Companies
• 14 GPTW awards for 2 Companies
• Teach Happiness, Success and Leadership
• Part of Pursuit-of-Happiness.org Team
8. Defining of Happiness
1. Happiness does not equal employees
skipping around the office and smiling all
the time.
2. Happiness is about employees wanting to
get out of bed and come to work everyday.
3. Our measurements were business
performance, employee surveys, and
eventually “Great Places to Work” surveys
and benchmarks.
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9. Why is Happiness Important?
“Your happiest employees are 47% more productive than
their least happy colleagues.” Jessica Pryce-Jones
“We’ve been able to conclusively link employee
satisfaction and engagement to customer satisfaction and
business performance.” Wiley and Kowske
“Studies …have shown a clear relationship between high
levels of employee engagement and improved financial
and operational results.” Towers and Watson
“…we have proven that engaged organizations have 3.9
times the earnings per share (EPS) growth rate compared
to organizations with lower engagement in their same
industry.” Gallup
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10. Purpose
“Human beings want meaning and purpose in life. The Meaningful Life
consists in belonging to and serving something that you believe is
bigger than the self .” Martin Seligman
Doctors who were allowed to work on something meaningful to
them, cut their burnout rate by 50%.
THE SCIENCE
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The Princesses clearly communicating the Purpose
of their kingdom: “Relationships and Results”
11. Finding Meaning and Purpose
1. Write your “Why”
2. What about the company or your work makes you feel proud?
3. How do the company vision and values apply to your life?
4. Identify how working at this company will help you reach your
dreams. (see The Dream Manager by Matthew Kelley).
EXPERIENCE
The Princesses clearly communicating the Purpose
of their kingdom: “Relationships and Results”
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12. Gifts
1. You can give them opportunities and habits
for happiness. You can’t give them
happiness or make them happy.
2. You can give the gift – they may choose not
to receive it.
3. Like gifts, different things make different
people happy.
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13. Autonomy
“Autonomy - the feeling that your life, its activities and
habits, are self-chosen and self-endorsed“
Journal of Personality and Social Psychology
“Having a strong sense of controlling one’s life is a more
dependable predictor of positive feelings of well-being than any of
the objective conditions of life we have considered…” Angus
Campbell.
Boer and Fischer found that autonomy is a better predictor of
happiness than money.
THE SCIENCE
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The Princesses gave them control of the kingdom
14. Autonomy
1. When to take a lunch break.
2. Who they will work with on different projects.
3. How to create and take ownership over company
culture activities.
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The Princesses gave them control of the kingdom
15. Flow
“The best moments in our lives are not the passive, receptive, relaxing
times… The best moments usually occur if a person’s body or mind is
stretched to its limits in a voluntary effort to accomplish something
difficult and worthwhile.” Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
“The ego falls away. Time flies. Your whole being is involved. You’re
using your skills to the utmost.” Csikszentmihalyi’s
Top 2 aspects of an ideal job – progress in their careers and be good
at their jobs. Pryce-Jones, author Happiness at Work
THE SCIENCE
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The Princesses challenged each member of the kingdom to
learn and implement their roles to the best of their ability.
16. Flow
1. Identify the tasks in your job that you truly enjoy and find
challenging. Create undisturbed blocks of time to focus on those
tasks.
2. Trade with team members. Take on their activities where you
easily find flow in exchange for them doing something from your
list of activities that they identify with flow.
3. Create methods for making your boring tasks more challenging
and interesting.
EXPERIENCE
The Princesses challenged each member of the kingdom to
learn and implement their roles to the best of their ability.
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17. Relationships
THE SCIENCE
“Experts at the Gallup Organization suggest that people need to
have good friends at work…” Diener
“…social support was the best predictor of happiness during
stressful times.” Achor, Stone, Ben-Shahar
“70 years of evidence that our relationships with other people
matter, and matter more than anything else in the world.” Vaillant
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The Princesses strongly encouraged interaction
18. Relationships
EXPERIENCE
1. Include more people in your network
2. Identify people vs. jobs – be authentic
3. Practice Random Acts of Kindness – Bring a friend a coffee, bring a
box of donuts into the office
4. Facilitate and encourage friendships in the workplace.
5. Celebrate birthdays, work anniversaries, promotions, and babies.
6. Events and Teams
7. Employee Supervisor Relationships –
Respect, Empathy, Gratitude, and Admiration
The Princesses strongly encouraged interaction
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19. Caring
THE SCIENCE
“75+% of employees want to be involved in their companies giving and
volunteer programs.” 2010 Cone Study
“Millennials who frequently volunteer are more likely to be
proud, loyal, and satisfied.”
”Millennials who frequently participate in their company’s employee
volunteer activities are two times more likely to rate their corporate
culture “very positive” (56% vs. 28%).”
“…companies that connect the dots between talent and volunteerism…
will likely be rewarded with happier workers”
2011 Deloitte Volunteer IMPACT Survey
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The Kingdom reached out to help others
20. Caring
The Kingdom reached out to help others
1. Organize a charity experience – volunteer at a school, hospital, or
senior care facility, plant a tree, or work with a local shelter.
2. Plan an act of kindness for a colleague going through a challenging
life change (i.e., death in the family, family illness, new baby).
3. Ask your Human Resources group if your company will match
donations to a local charity. Pick your favorite charity and donate.
EXPERIENCE
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21. Strengths
THE SCIENCE
Harzer and Ruch (2012) found that employees who apply their
signature strengths to their unique work circumstances experience
greater job satisfaction, pleasure, engagement, and meaning.
There is a strong connection between well-being and the use of
signature strengths because strengths helps us make progress on
our goals and meet our basic needs for
independence, relationship, and competence (Linley et al., 2010)
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The Princesses created opportunities for team
members to explore and leverage their strengths
22. Strengths
The Princesses created opportunities for team
members to explore and leverage their strengths
1. Identify and Keep a Written list of your Strengths
2. Look for tasks and opportunities to apply them
3. Tribes and Minors
4. Day-in-the-Life
5. Reviews
6. Specialists and Generalists
You can take a test to determine your strengths at
https://www.viacharacter.org
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23. Health
Researchers from the University of Bristol found that people who
exercise on work days are happier, suffer less stress and are
more productive.
Data from the US General Social Survey revealed that healthy
people are 20% happier than the average person
“Research shows that physical exercise strengthens both the
body and the brain! Exercise reduces stress and promotes the
growth of new brain cells.” Marissa Toussaint
THE SCIENCE
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The Princesses supported health and physical well-being
24. Health
The Princesses supported health and physical well-being
1. Softball, Soccer, Basketball and Volleyball Teams
2. Group Walking
3. Fruit and Vegetables Delivered Regularly
4. Biggest Loser
5. Outdoor Meetings and Breaks
6. Company sponsored Gym memberships
7. Team 5k’s and Fun Runs for Charities
EXPERIENCE
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25. Work Place Happiness = Performance
Moral of the Story
Happiness in the work place is not a
fairy tale.
It is a business necessity. It is a direct
path to sustainable performance and
profitability improvement.
Pursuit-of-Happiness.org
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26. List of Books to Read
1. Drive - Daniel Pink
2. Happiness - Ed Diener and Robert Diener
3. The How of Happiness – Sonja Lyubomirsky
4. Flourish - Martin Seligman
5. Happiness at Work - Jessica Pryce-Jones
6. Flow – Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
7. Dream Manager – Mathew Kelly
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Write down why you are working at this company. Keep it handy as a reference for when the negative thoughts and feelings start to interfere with your happiness.As an individual this is an activity you do with your significant other, family, or close friends.Team – Supervisor discusses with each team member or group discussion over beers of pot luck lunch.Identify how working at this company will help you reach your dreams. (see The Dream Manager by Matthew Kelley).We did dream boards with pictures and dream plans.Not everyone had a dream, but everyone wanted to participate in helping others reach their dreams.We asked for volunteers to lead this effortResearch the company vision and values. Write down how they fit and apply to your life.We found that our vision and values had more impact when we helped connect them to people personally. Not everyone connected to every value but they found aspects they could believe in and focus on.What about the company makes you feel proud?We discovered this by accident – mostly listening to people who had been interviewed by our people. Different people were proud about different things – but together it was a group pride.If you are an executive - make sure you have a vision statement, mission statement, etc.Communicate and share it regularly with people inside and outside the company.Know the “Why” of you company and make sure everyone else knows it as well.
It can be something as small as when, where, or how to take your lunch break. As an individual – what are the things you can control in your workplace. What do you keep on your desk? What do you wear to work? How do you complete a task? When do you complete the task?For a team – letting different members of the group handle the lunch schedule or decide where everyone is going for lunch. Letting the group decide what role they will play on a project. For an individual – choosing who you want to work with. Offer to help someone you admire. Look for opportunities to do projects with those people or find time to take them to lunch or breakfast to learn about what they do. For a team – let them interview or at least meet and offer an opinion on future teammates or interns. Everyone seems to have a passion. Bring that to work. One guy set up a soccer team. Several people share their cooking expertise by bringing in food for the team. One girl took on training for the team. We set up an anonymous feedback email system that volunteers monitored and created solutions for.We also set up iMinors or 10% of each person’s time could be used to learn something outside of their normal job.We set up Day-in-the-Life opportunities.
Identify the tasks in your job that you truly enjoy and find challenging. Create undisturbed blocks of time to focus on those tasks.We had an accounting clerk who got into flow when entering accounts payable. For teams, talk as a group about who likes to do what and assign tasks accordingly. Also, cross-train each team member so they can learn new challenges and back-fill when their teammates are out sick or on vacation.We ended up hiring a lot of musicians because they had a knack for numbers and could quickly find flow working in the spreadsheets.Trade with team members. Take on their activities where you easily find flow in exchange for them doing something from your list of activities that they identify with flow.On many of our teams we had jobs that included numbers work and verbal work. We often found these team members could trade tasks and the people who liked numbers could find flow working with the data and reports while the verbal people could manage and create keywords.Create methods for making your boring tasks more challenging and interesting. We had an employee who was constantly challenging himself to complete more each day. He started with 100 high quality entries per day and then kept increasing the number daily, until we were all asking him about how many he had made it to that day. Our teams would break boring projects into pieces with mini goals and spend 60 to 90 minutes focused on each of their tasks, and then if everyone completed on time they would go outside and throw a football, kick a soccer ball or get ice cream.Competition adds challenge and helps bring focus to more easily achieve flow.
Include more people in your networkFacilitate and encourage friendships in the workplace. Celebrate birthdays, work anniversaries, promotions, and babies.Host potluck lunches and Happy Hours (with reasonable non-alcoholic beverage choices).Practice Random Acts of Kindness – Bring a friend a coffee, bring a box of donuts into the officeHost competitions among small groups for best decorated office at Halloween, most food for a can drive, or Art Gallery night.Encourage participation in Company Teams (i.e., Volleyball, Soccer, Softball, Walking or Running).Employee Supervisor RelationshipsA great way to be happier at work is to expand your network of friendships. Most people focus on a few really close relationships that we form early on in a particular workplace. Those are the people we go to lunch with and spend most of our time talking to. Unfortunately those people usually have very similar circumstances as far as supervisor, workload, or location. So they also have similar perspectives and feelings. By including people with different experiences we get different perspectives and have a broader base of support when things are not going well in our area.Ask your friend to invite one of their friends to lunch with you. If you are in the kitchen getting coffee, take a minute to talk to an acquaintance and find out more about them. If you are on a project, get to know the people on your team on a more personal level. One of the number one predictors of job satisfaction, engagement, and retention is your relationship with your direct supervisor. The out dated notion that you can’t be friends with your boss should be thrown out the window. Your boss is a necessary part of your success and happiness. They are difficult relationships, but it is important that they are strong and positive relationships. If you have a bad boss, find out and write down the things that are good about them. At the very least it is good to know what not to do with your employees.