Exploring how Facebook users express grief on the profiles of the deceased. Based on research completed for Master's thesis at Syracuse University in October 2013, presented at Theorizing the Web in April 2014.
6. RESEARCH QUESTIONS
RQ 1: How do Facebook users experience
interaction with a deceased user’s profile?
RQ 2: How do young adults experience the
expression of grief on Facebook?
RQ 3: How do Facebook users engage in online
memorialization of a deceased user?
9. Melissa on continued interaction:
“...You kind of try to get over it, and then you get
these updates. Months later. From his dad, just ‘I
miss you’ in the Facebook group. And so that’s the
continuous nature of it, [which] is I think the hardest
part, because I’m still in the group and so are all of
my friends.”
10. Erin on a profile’s persistence:
“...obviously he’s not gonna post any more pictures
because he doesn’t - can’t...Those were his last
memories, and... if you go back through his pictures
of, like, tagged pictures and everything [you see him]
with friends over winter break, and like at
homecoming that year and stuff, so that’s, like, a good
way to, like, remember him.”
11. PRESERVATION OF IDENTITY
• Want to remember; fear forgetting
• Profile vs. grave
• Telling/reading stories about deceased
• Dynamic memory archive
13. Taylor on visiting a cemetery compared
to a Facebook profile:
“...I find someone’s grave to be very, like, morbid,
and kind of like a religious [representation] of their
death, whereas if you go on their old Facebook
page you see these pictures of them laughing, them
on a hike, doing all this stuff. It’s like you’re
remembering the good things about them rather than,
like, their physical death.”
14. CONCLUSIONS
• Facebook provides space for persistent
communication - this space can be disruptive to
traditional grief expression.
• Feel uncomfortable
• Unable to set aside memories of deceased
• Source of emotional conflict
15. IMPLICATIONS
• Grief voyeurism
• Preoccupation with ourselves as
mourners
• Engage in an “endless shying
away from confrontation with
mortality”
(Metcalf & Huntington, 1991)