But I will be an adult enough http://www.blackplanet.com/your_page/blog/view_posting.html?pid=260332...

1. Why Do Married Soldiers Cheat When They Deploy?
But I will be an adult enough
http://www.blackplanet.com/your_page/blog/view_posting.html?pid=2603324&profile_id=65016729
&profile_name=omniscientreven00&user_id=65016729&username=omniscientreven00 to put a
stop to it...this thread deserves better....
Having been in the military, and having experienced personally and witnessed the stresses that
relationships can bring, I would like to see this topic serve its purpose, as opposed to being usurped
by Sad's uselessness.
Seeking help, at least in the Marines, is typically perceived as a sign of weakness.....but many who
need help then go without for fear of what others will say.... A friend of mine was going through
such an ordeal when I was at my last duty station...and when his significant other back home
cheated on him he slit his forearms from wrist to elbow....I had known him a long time, from long
before we were both stationed together in Hawaii....and it is sad to lose good people....he did not
die...but he was discharged from service shortly thereafter...
I do believe that more counsellors need to be on bases...and that the stigma that plagues those in the
military who use their services can be put aside....
You truly are blind.....I am glad that this exchange is here publicly for all to see...how pathetic.
On this note, going back to the topic of this forum, it is my view that relationships...meaning
girlfriends-boyfriends as well as spouses can get in the way of military service.... They are not
incompatable....but I have seen so much damage that I sometimes wish that there was a rule
demanding that all first term enlistees and officers remain single...but I realize that this is not a
reality...

2. The Perpetuation of Aimless Argumentation strikes again......
mikelongposted 5 years ago
And the worse issue here is that our job was very critical....a lot of money went into our
training....Sigint is tough stuff that few are qualified to do....