15 relationship resolutions that your relationship cannot survive without
1. 15 Relationship Resolutions That Your
Relationship Cannot Survive Without
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We just started a new year and we have not gone through the first 3
months of it. In other words, the resolutions that we have made
when it started, we probably have not broken them yet.
If you are like most people, you must have made some resolutions
such as losing weight, saving more money or drinking less etc, only to
2. find that in a couple of weeks you have given up on the resolutions
and have gotten back to the old habits. Resolutions can be hard to
keep up with, but when it comes to your relationship, there are a few
things that you can decide on for the new year, and believe me, they
are much easier to stick with than the other resolutions.
1. Say you are sorry – being in a relationship and loving someone
means that you will need to say you are sorry quite a bit. You can
always win an argument, but it does not help your relationship if the
person you are with is feeling like trash. Remember, you are with
someone you care about, and you should be on the same team
working towards the same goals.
2. Snuggle more – especially if your person loves snuggling with you.
A lot of the time we think sex is extremely important, and it is.
However, there are times when women just want to be held, just
want to snuggle and enjoy intimacy without it leading to sex. I
promise you, it will improve your relationship a lot.
3. Eat and work out like you are single – Of course we all want to be
with that special person who loves us no matter how we look,
however, we must never stop caring about how we look. Taking care
of ourselves will not only make us feel great, but the woman in our
life will also be happy that their person takes care of themselves and
they care about how they look.
3. 4. Be realistic and cut down on the long list of things that you want
in a woman – Realize that there is not one perfect person in the
world, including you. I am in no way saying that you should have no
standards at all when it come to the woman in your life, however, if
your list is 2 pages long, then it is really not going to work. You are
too picky, and imagine if you had to have all the qualities that you
are expecting?
5. Stop comparing your woman to other women – whether it is
women in your past or those that cross your path, stop comparing
her. She is who she is and she should have the opportunity to be
herself to you without having to fill shoes of certain people that she
knows nothing about.
6. Be logical – if your relationship is new, enjoy the fireworks that
you are enjoying. If it has been going on for a while, you cannot
expect to stay in the same excitement level that you experience with
a new relationship. Realize that things will settle down and you might
not have the same butterflies that you used to have in your stomach,
but realize that you can keep it fresh and interesting.
7. Give her the attention that she deserves – When you have the
“you” time, stop focusing on other things that clutter your time
together. Focus on her, stop the chatting on your phone, get off the
phone, leave the psp and just enjoy quality time. Listen attentively as
she talks to you, and be “present”
4. 8. Really put the past behind – give your relationship the best
chance that you can, and leave the past where it belongs. If you have
baggage of the past (and most of us do) where an ex hurt you and
broke your heart, you need to forgive them so that you are able to
move on. This does not condone what they did to you, but holding
on to hurt, anger and bitterness will only affect your relationship
negatively. Forgive yourself if you need to and open yourself to new
possibilities.
9. Have fun in your relationship – the excuse that you are bored in
the relationship should not even be entertained. Stop being boring,
try out something new with your woman, go out, have fun and
always make time for fun.
10. Spoil each other – I am not talking about messing up your whole
budget here, just small gifts or gestures that show her that you care,
that you are thinking about her will go a long way in putting a smile
on her face. A romantic massage, her favorite flowers, cooking for
her, helping out in keeping the place clean, a romantic candle lit
dinner – the list is endless!
11. Keep your manners during arguments – arguments tend to bring
the worst in all of us, but you need to decide that you will not call her
names or say horrible things that you will not be able to take back.
We can all make excuses and say that the other person pushed us to
do or say the things that we say, however, we need to be more
responsible about what we do/say.
5. 12. Live in the moment – Yes, planning is good and of course as a
couple there should be some goals that you are working towards.
However, yesterday is gone and tomorrow is NOT here. Today is all
we have, and we can make a choice to live the best life we can right
now.
13. Try never to go to bed angry – Remember every moment that
you are angry is a moment you are robbing yourself of happiness,
and it is time that you can never get back.
14. Compliment her often – Women love knowing that they look
good in the eyes of their significant others, so put a smile on a her
face. Let her know she is still as attractive as when you met her.
15. Tell her you love her – Make sure you tell her how much you
love her, so that there is never a moment where she is not sure!
Through the ups and downs of your relationship, let her know how
much you care and how special she is to you. Very often, we only
realize what someone meant to us once they are gone, do not let it
happen to you. The grass is NOT greener on the other side, and if you
just watered your grass instead of chasing whatever you think is out
there, you would be just fine! Actions speak louder than words, so
your actions should spell out just what you mean to her.