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Coachthe peopleyoucareabout
1.
Coach the People You
Care About Eight Coaching Skills for Helping Others Meet the Challenges of Work and Life Dennis E. Coates, Ph.D. and Meredith M. Bell
2.
Copyright © 2011,
Dennis E. Coates and Meredith M. Bell. All rights reserved. PERMISSION - Readers have permission to make copies of the PDF file of Coach the People You Care About to give to others for educational purposes. Coach the People You Care About published under the copyright laws of the Library of Congress of The United States of America by: Performance Support Systems, Inc., 11838 Rock Landing Drive, Suite 130 Newport News, VA 23606 TOLL-FREE – 800-488-6463 LOCAL – 757-873-3700 FAX – 757-873-3288 WEB – www.ProStarCoach.com EMAIL – info@prostarcoach.com Legal Notice While all attempts have been made to verify information provided in this publication, neither the authors nor the publisher assume any responsibility for errors, omissions or contrary interpretation of the subject matter. The reader of this publication assumes responsibility for the use of these materials and information. The authors and Publisher assume no responsibility or liability whatsoever on the behalf of any purchaser or reader of these materials. Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 2
3.
Contents The big picture…
.......................................................................................... 4 Listen ........................................................................................................... 7 Stimulate Thinking ....................................................................................... 9 Encourage .................................................................................................. 11 Guide Learning from Experience ................................................................ 13 Praise ......................................................................................................... 15 Give Constructive Feedback ....................................................................... 17 Give Feedforward ...................................................................................... 19 Hold Accountable....................................................................................... 21 Virtual Coaching......................................................................................... 23 Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 3
4.
The big picture…
Have you ever thought of yourself as a coach? Have you ever been in a relationship where you advised or encouraged someone? This book is for people who are in a position to help others learn and grow stronger for the challenges of life and work—managers, co- workers, mentors, consultants, trainers, parents, teachers, friends, family, coaches, and counselors. Very likely you identify with one or more of these roles. Surely you know people who want to improve their chances for success. Some of these folks may have already asked for your help. Top executives and elite athletes may be able to afford professional coaching, but that’s not the case with many others. Most people “get by with a little help from their friends.” This book was written to help you be there for the people you care about when they need your help. Its purpose is to remind you of the best way to use eight critical coaching skills while the people you’re helping try to make changes in their behavior—not an easy task for anyone. Being an effective coach isn’t about solving people’s problems, motivating them or giving advice. Instead, you need to: Listen Stimulate Thinking Encourage Guide Learning from Experience Praise Give Constructive Feedback Give Feedforward Hold Accountable Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 4
5.
Coaching the People
You Care About is a how-to book in the sense that it clearly outlines the best practice models, along with tips that will help you coach more effectively. This makes it more of a reference book than an instructional manual. Both these books were inspired by the online virtual coaching system, ProStar Coach. One of its innovative features is a built-in “Coaching Network,” an application that helps individuals involved in self- development get coaching from real people who care about their success. These books were written to help these “peer coaches” give the most effective support possible. This brief reference eBook is available free, so you can print pages for your own use. You may also make digital copies of it and give them to anyone you feel will benefit from it. Someday, you may be working on your own personal development, and you may want other people’s input, advice, ideas, information, encouragement, accountability, and support. Hopefully, what they do for you will be helpful. Feel free to give them a copy of this book. This book is a valuable reference, but reading the summaries won’t be enough to make you a better coach. You’ll find that mastering a coaching skill is a lot like mastering a skill in a sport, such as learning how to hit a golf ball out of a sand trap. The real learning happens as you practice the skills in real life, helping others. With enough practical experience you can make these coaching skills a habitual way of relating to people. Like any skill, this will take a lot of repetition over time. You’ll get there, but be patient and forgiving with yourself, because you’ll make mistakes. Simply accept that mistakes and failures come with the territory—and learn from them. But if you persist, the percentage of successes will increase. The key is to learn something from every success and every shortfall. Learning experts have known for decades that adults learn best from experience in the real world. But to learn from your mistakes, an Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 5
6.
experience must be
followed by reflection. The key is to ponder these four questions in roughly this order: What happened? Why did it happen? What were the consequences? In a similar situation in the future, what will you do differently? As you use coaching skills and learn from your experiences, revisit the best practice models in this book to make sure you’re on track—that you’re ingraining the right way of doing things. The hard part will be setting aside old habits. The more you apply a skill, the easier it will get to do it right. Each time you consciously use one of the coaching skills, concentrate on improving one aspect. With enough practice, the skill will begin to feel natural, which means that you’ll use the skill automatically, without trying. Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 6
7.
Listen
Communication can be tricky. But when others are trying to tell you something, what they have to say may be important to you. Here’s how to make sure you actually “get the message.” 1. Sense the “listening moment” Recognize when someone is trying to tell you something. Know when it’s time to stop conversing and start listening. 2. Focus your attention When listening, don’t do anything else. For the moment, make the speaker feel like the most important person in your world. 3. Listen for the meaning Notice what is said and how it’s said to learn why the person is telling you this. 4. Check the meaning Consider both verbal and nonverbal messages and tell the speaker what you believe you understood. 5. Ask for more information Encourage the speaker to continue, and keep checking until you’re sure you’ve understood the whole message. Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 7
8.
Look for
“listening moments” Make sure you have time to hear the person out Focus 100% on the speaker Interpret nonverbal messages Don’t interrupt Use encouraging nods and other “I hear you” nonverbals Encourage speaker to “own the problem” Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 8
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Stimulate Thinking
When others are having trouble, the most helpful thing you can do is to help them to think for themselves. When people work through their issues, they come up with better solutions and they become more confident in their ability to deal with challenges. 1. Resist the temptation to solve the problem or give advice 2. Ask questions that get the person to think. Some examples… How would you like me to help you with this? How much does this matter to you? How long have you been concerned about this? What do you believe is going on? How did you feel about that? What do you think about that? What’s your opinion? What does this mean to you? What does this tell you? What ideas do you have? What are some other ways to resolve this? What would you like to do? Is this something you’re willing to do? If you do that, what do you think would happen? What do you need to do to make this happen? What would success look like to you? What support would you like from me? Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 9
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Encourage them
to “own the problem” Ask questions that get them to address the steps of effective problem solving Always let the other person answer the question Refrain from giving advice, even if they ask for it Encourage them to solve their own problem In between questions, do a lot of LISTENING Share relevant information, if you have it Support their preferred solution, even if it’s not what you would do Guide them to resources, if they need them Give ENCOURAGEMENT Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 10
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Encourage
Faced with a setback, most people recover, take heart and continue striving. But sometimes a situation can feel devastating. The negatives can seem so troubling that they lose sight of the positives. A goal can seem unrealistic, not worth the effort. Encouragement can help them get back on their feet. 1. Listen Always do this first to learn what happened and find out how discouraged the person really is. 2. Affirm Remind him of his strengths and past achievements. 3. Perspective Help him recognize the upsides, possibilities and opportunities in his situation. 4. Support Confirm your trust and confidence in him and your belief in what he’s doing, plus your willingness to be there with help and resources, if needed. Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 11
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Sense what
the person needs Be compassionate, sincere and patient Avoid sugar-coating the situation Don’t give false hope “Inoculate” people by encouraging proactively Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 12
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Guide Learning from
Experience People make mistakes all the time, but they can learn from them. They can even learn from their successes. But this doesn’t happen automatically. To learn from an experience, they have to reflect on what has happened. The problem is, people don’t always do this. When it’s important to avoid repeating a mistake, you can spot a “learning moment” and skillfully help a person think about the event to gain a valuable lesson from it. You do this by asking these five questions: 1. “What happened?” Who did what? What was the sequence of events? 2. “Why did it happen that way?” Cause and effect? Motives? What helped or hindered? 3. “What were the consequences?” Outcomes? Benefits? Costs? Problems? Resolutions? 4. “What would you do differently?” What lessons were learned? What basic principles? 5. “What are your next steps?” What will you do now to begin implementing this learning? Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 13
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Look for
“learning moments” Ask the questions in sequence Let the person do the answering OK if person gives answer before you ask the question Don’t lecture—don’t make the points yourself Make sure all the questions get answered Make it a conversation, not a rigid exercise Be encouraging and express your confidence Be patient—learning requires repetition Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 14
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Praise
Given how powerful positive feedback is, it’s amazing that people don’t give it very often. Most people feel unappreciated. They believe their best efforts usually go unnoticed. While you don’t want to give praise for every little thing they do, you should try to “catch people doing things right.” To make your praise effective, follow these guidelines: 1. Describe the specific behavior No opinions or generalities. Focus on what the person did that delighted you. 2. Share your reaction Describe your positive feelings, so the person understands how important the action was to you. 3. Explain why—the impact To appreciate why you care about what happened, the person needs to understand the positive consequences. Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 15
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Give praise
3 times as often as constructive feedback Save praise for achievements Focus on specific observable behavior Own your praise—“I-messages” Give praise in person Give it promptly (24-48 hours) Get to the point, be sincere Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 16
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Give Constructive
Feedback People forget. They lose sight of the big picture, or they misunderstand what’s expected. So they come up short. It’s important to hold up a mirror to behavior, because others don’t always know whether they’re on track or in trouble. Instead of criticizing or avoiding confrontation, you can point out an issue in a way that people will accept it. 1. Affirm the good To defuse defensiveness, mention at least one thing you liked. 2. Describe the behavior Focus on the unacceptable action. Be specific and factual. 3. Share your reaction Express your feelings—surprise, concern, disappointment, etc. 4. Explain why—the impact Describe the consequences of the action. 5. Restate the expectation Describe the specific, observable behavior you want and why. 6. Encourage Remind her of your confidence in her—and your support. Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 17
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Only address
issues the person can do something about Focus on one issue at a time Ask if feedback is welcome Calm down before giving feedback Focus on specific observable behavior Own your feedback—“I-statements” Give feedback in person Give it promptly (24-48 hours) Keep it private Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 18
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Give Feedforward
Yes, feedback can help someone focus on a high priority area for development. But when people are doing the hard work of changing their behavior, what they need most is to focus on their goal, not their past behavior. What they need are specific suggestions for being more effective in the future. This is what is meant by feedforward. The approach is simple. 1. Make sure your suggestions are wanted People who are working on self-development may ask for your ideas. If not, check to be sure they welcome your input. 2. Give one or two suggestions for improving the behavior pattern Never give more than two suggestions. Describe specifically the behavior you believe will help them be more successful. Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 19
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Make sure
your suggestion is related to what the person is working on Be sure your suggestion is welcome Give your suggestion in person Focus strictly on behavior Avoid making suggestions about attitudes, values, or feelings Avoid mentioning past behavior Give only two suggestions Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 20
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Hold Accountable
It takes a lot of commitment and effort to learn a new skill or change a behavior pattern. Along the way, a person should ask: Am I doing what I said I would do? Am I making progress? If he doesn’t check, he won’t know. He may be off track and not realize it. Knowing that someone will check not only verifies progress, it’s a motivator to follow through and do the work. And evidence of progress inspires more effort. You can help hold someone accountable. If you do this, discuss the parameters of the relationship: 1. Confirm the goal Get the person to state the desired end result. 2. Decide what to measure What actions will produce the result? 3. List accountability questions Did you…? How many…? How often did you…? 4. Set up accountability process Which questions? When to ask them? How to make contact? 5. Be there—ask the questions Follow through on your commitment to hold the person accountable. Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 21
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Make sure
the person wants your help Keep your commitment to make contact Keep a record of the accountability responses If the person expresses frustration, LISTEN When there is progress, give PRAISE If there are setbacks, give ENCOURAGEMENT Avoid patronizing, judging, cajoling, moralizing Preserve confidentiality—keep accountability information PRIVATE Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 22
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Virtual Coaching You may
have received this eBook from a subscriber of ProStar Coach, the online virtual coaching system. The service integrates feedback, content, exercises, and virtual coaching to support an individual’s self-development. This person may have asked you to be a part of his or her “Coaching Network”—a networking technology that supplements virtual coaching with coaching from real people like you. If so, the spirit of the request is the desire to receive effective coaching. The eBook Coach the People You Care About was written to help you give the kind of encouragement, feedback, accountability and support a person needs to make changes in behavior. Use these skills to coach others You may be asked for input, suggestions, advice, feedback and support. In the coaching role, you can: Affirm strengths, boosting confidence and performance Point out blind spots, helping someone change behavior in a specific area Help people learn from everyday experiences Make a lasting, positive contribution to someone whose success you care about Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 23
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Give this book
to people who can coach you You may be working on personal development yourself. If so, you’ll get better help if the people who care about your success know how to give you input, feedback, encouragement and accountability. They may want to help, but their support will be more effective if they use basic coaching skills Give them this book, refer them to specific chapters When they give you support, tell them what’s working, ask for what you need Coaching requires commitment, so be appreciative, thank them for helping you Learn more about ProStar Coach When you have your own ProStar Coach account, you’ll: Become more aware of your own strengths and discover ways you can improve Learn and practice important skills that make you more effective Set up your own Coaching Network with peer coaches you select Request input frequently from your Coaching Network for feedback, encouragement, ideas and suggestions Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 24
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For more information
about ProStar Coach: http://www.prostarcoach.com Copyright © 2011 Performance Supports Systems, Inc. 25
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