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Presentation for the 20 th  Annual Symposium The Alzheimer’s Association, Colorado Chapter May 8, 2009 John Rymers and Debbie Reinberg Easing the Tough Conversations:  Mediating Family Disputes
Tough Conversations ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Tough Conversations  & Dementia ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Tough Conversations and  Other Family Members ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
When the family/support system is NOT acting as a cohesive unit ,[object Object],[object Object]
Reasons the Family/Support System Might not Agree ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
What Individuals Can Do ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Family/Group Options ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Facilitation ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
What is Mediation? ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Comparison of  Facilitation and Mediation ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Common Outcomes/Goals ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Principles of  Facilitation and Mediation ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Issues that may present as conflicts & be appropriate for mediation ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Residency Decisions ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Responsibilities/Roles ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Safety Issues &  Medical Treatment ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
End-of-Life Issues ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
And, what if you stir in these issues? ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Or, these concerns? ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Resistance to  Starting the Conversation ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
How to Get Started ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Plan a Family Meeting or Mediation Session ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
What happens at the family meeting or mediation session? ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Why Does it Work? ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Q & A ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]

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