1. Chapter 7: X3Pure Couples Series

2. Dealing with Anger

3. Dealing with Anger
• Four styles of conflict.

4. Dealing with Anger
• Four styles of conflict.
- Win
- Yield
- Withdraw
- Resolve

5. Dealing with Anger
• Four styles of conflict.
- Win
- Yield
- Withdraw
- Resolve
• Conflict can be good if it’s resolved.

6. Dealing with Anger
• Four styles of conflict.
- Win
- Yield
- Withdraw
- Resolve
• Conflict can be good if it’s resolved.
• Confronting in love.

7. Anger

8. Anger
• 3 Types of Anger

9. Anger
• 3 Types of Anger
- Situation specific

10. Anger
• 3 Types of Anger
- Situation specific
- Displaced anger

11. Anger
• 3 Types of Anger
- Situation specific
- Displaced anger
- Chronic anger

12. Chronic Anger

13. Chronic Anger
• Chronic anger is situation-specific but
displaced from another situation.

14. Chronic Anger
• Chronic anger is situation-specific but
displaced from another situation.
• Similar to displaced anger but chronic anger is
connected to your past, a wound, or abuse.
Chronic anger is usually the result of
unresolved issues.

15. Chronic Anger

16. Chronic Anger
• To deal with chronic anger you must forgive.

17. Chronic Anger
• To deal with chronic anger you must forgive.
• Chronic anger is usually tied to a person or a
past event.

18. Chronic Anger
• To deal with chronic anger you must forgive.
• Chronic anger is usually tied to a person or a
past event.
• Until you are able to forgive you will never
break free from chronic anger.

19. Forgiveness

20. Forgiveness
• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate
toward one another, forgiving each other just
as in Christ God forgave you.”

21. Forgiveness
• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate
toward one another, forgiving each other just
as in Christ God forgave you.”
• It is a command

22. Forgiveness
• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate
toward one another, forgiving each other just
as in Christ God forgave you.”
• It is a command
Be kind

23. Forgiveness
• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate
toward one another, forgiving each other just
as in Christ God forgave you.”
• It is a command
Be kind
Be compassionate

24. Forgiveness
• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate
toward one another, forgiving each other just
as in Christ God forgave you.”
• It is a command
Be kind
Be compassionate
Forgive

25. Forgiveness
• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate
toward one another, forgiving each other just
as in Christ God forgave you.”
• It is a command
Be kind
Be compassionate
Forgive
• In Christ

26. Forgiveness

27. Forgiveness
• “When you forgive someone you set a
prisoner free only to discover that you were
the prisoner.”

28. Forgiveness
• “When you forgive someone you set a
prisoner free only to discover that you were
the prisoner.”
• Forgiveness is not about the other person,
it’s about me.

29. Homework Assignment

30. Homework Assignment
• Begin the process of forgiveness today