2. Quiz
We discussed 8 different types of attractions. Name
4. All 8 gets you extra credit.
When do we realize we are attracted to members of
the opposite sex? (Not a specific age)
In the story we read in class, why was it so
frightening for Kevin to call Jessica?
What were the 3 goals of refusal?
Extra Credit: Share your first crush experience.
15. Apperance
Look your best
Remember, people like their dates to look nice, not
only for their own visual pleasure, but also because
they prefer to be seen with attractive people.
This can change depending on your “style”
What would you wear on a date?
16. Posture
Posture can communicate self-confidence.
If you slump your shoulders, bow your head, and
keep your eyes on the floor, you give the impression
of wanting to go unnoticed.
If you lift your chin, square your shoulders, and walk
with pride, others will see you are full of life!
In your desks, show me how you would sit on a date.
17. Grooming
Clean hair that is cut and shaped will enhance
apperance
Good grooming habits help you show you care about
yourself.
What are some grooming habits you would do before
your date?
18. Clothing Selection
“Clothing makes the person” because people often
judge you accoriding to the clothes you wear.
Different clothes create different images.
Proper care of clothing is also important.
Dress appropriately for the activity of the date.
Do you know the outfit you would wear if you were
asked on a date today?
19. Remember…
“Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”
Remember that different people find different physical
qualities attractive, giving us all lots of opportunity to
be attractive, and attracted to others.
21. 3 Purposes of Dating
Mate Selection
Socialization Skills
Recreation
22. Positive Dating Characteristics
Being concerned with your dates comfort.
Being able to carry on a conversation
Being able to ask questions
Stay attentive to your date
Show respect for the other person
Be yourself. Be genuine.
23. Negative Characteristics of Dating
Speaking freely of past relationships
Being oblivious to the partner’s need.
Being unfamiliar with rules of etiquette.
Pointing out faults.
Dominating the topic.
Pretending to know everything.