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Help Defined: Empowering vs Enabling

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Malinda Wilson

An analysis of criminal thinking, boundary setting, contract building, and ways that a volunteer can ensure that they are being effective by reducuing the potential for being used or conned.

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Help Defined: Empowering vs Enabling Workshop Presenter: Malinda D. Wilson, MA Program Specialist, Project Return, Inc.
TOP 10 Indicators You Might Be an Enabling Volunteer ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Do not grow weary in doing good… ,[object Object]
Definitions
Criminal Thinking Errors encapsulated by Brian Loebig, MBA, CADCIII Ownership Attitude Uniqueness Power Trust Fear of Fear Lack of Time Perspective Lack of Interest in Responsible Performance Lack of Effort Self-View = “good person” “ Victim- Stance” Closed Channel Thinking Cognitive Thinking / Processing
Closed Channel Thinking ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Victimstance ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Views Self as “Good Person” ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Lack of Effort ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Lack of Interest in Responsible Performance ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Lack of Time Perspective ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Fear of Fear ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Power Trust ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Uniqueness ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Ownership Attitude ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Some Tactics ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
More Tactics ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Pro-Social vs. Anti-Social Living World Surviving World ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Pro-Social vs. Anti-Social Living World Surviving World ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],(Bosch)
Pro-Social vs. Anti-Social Living World Surviving World ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],(Bosch)
Pro-Social vs. Anti-Social Living World Surviving World ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],(Bosch)
Pro-Social vs. Anti-Social Living World Surviving World ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],(Bosch)
Pro-Social vs. Anti-Social Living World Surviving World ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],(Bosch)
Added Factor = Emotional Incarceration ,[object Object]
So What is My Role? ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],STAY CLEAR , AS TO WHAT IS GOING ON, IN YOUR INTERACTIONS
Teaching Your Mentee New Ways of Thinking ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Developing Healthy Relationships through a Written Covenant ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
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Deterrents ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Serenity Prayer ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Sources ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]

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