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1. Lifestyle Lifestyle
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With that in mind, here are ten either desire to achieve all that you to push you beyond what you deemed
winning tips to help you create an want from a place of convenience - in to be possible for you. An outsider can
amazing year and achieve all that which case when confronted with a help in counselling and challenging
you set out to do. challenge, you will find yourself packing you beyond your current beliefs and
up and back to where you started - or, thoughts. When you pick the right
1. A Better You you can do what every winner has done coach, they will be able to work with
The truth is very simple - A Better Year to date and Make a Commitment. A you in finding the fire that has always
Requires a Better You. If you are happy commitment to have an attitude that been residing within you.
with the result in your life and in your says “What Ever It Takes”. There are no
business, then you are on the right two ways about it. 9. Always Be Learning
track and doing the right things. If you The quality of your results is a direct
feel that there is much more in you, 5. Move With Momentum reflection of the quality of your mind.
then you need to evaluate your beliefs, Each year escapes most of us at a rate The world is constantly changing. Never
thoughts, decisions and actions that that seems to only be getting quicker think you know it all. Never assume that
you have taken thus far. Understand with age. Therefore, once you have the what you know is an absolute truth, for
Winning
that you are living an outcome of all that clarity of what you would like to achieve it can change overnight. Some years
you have believed, thought, decided ensure that you Move with Urgency, ago, becoming a billionaire was the
and acted on to date. You want bigger Move with Purpose, Move with Passion result of decades of hard work. Today,
and better results? Then, you have to and Move with Momentum. we see individuals creating empires in a
Goal
be Be More and Do More. Only then matter of a few years. As a winner you
are you able to Attain More. Start every 6. The Past is Not Your Future must anticipate, accept and adapt to
day by asking yourself, ‘How can I Be What’s gone is gone. Your past no change. A winning way of doing so is to
Better today?’ longer holds true to you today. Where always be learning.
you are today is a sum of everything
2. Absolute Clarity you have and haven’t done to date. It 10. Get Specific, Take Action
You must develop Absolute Clarity is not your future, neither does it define Your success will not come from all
about what you want to achieve this it. Most people are constantly stuck the knowledge you accumulate alone,
year and why. You must develop living in the past and are wondering the resources you have, nor the skills
Specific Actions you were innately
Plans. This is so born with or
important because in
doing so, you will be
“The quality of your results is a direct developed. Your
success will come
Motivational speaker able to remain much reflection of the quality of your mind.” from the actions
and author Kevin more focussed on a
day to day basis. You
you take. Life
doesn’t reward
Abdulrahman gives BC will also find that with every step taken
towards your goals, you will gain the
why they are tense and unable to reach
their goals. Leave the baggage of the
those with potential or those who feel
they deserve it. Life rewards those who
readers ten top tips on confidence to take even bigger and past behind; all the mistakes, failures,
fears, challenges, and rejections. All you
understand the simplest of truths -
taking action.
bolder steps.
how to achieve their need to take away are the lessons you Once you know what you want,
3. Believe it learned and experiences you’ve gained then you must put pen to paper and
goals this year. You must absolutely believe that you to help you move forward sharper and write down what exactly you must be
Confucius said, “When will achieve your goals. You may get
to your destination sooner; you may
smarter. Your future is created by the
decisions you make and the actions
doing on a day to day, week by week
and month by month basis in order to
it is obvious that the get to it later. Time becomes irrelevant
when you believe that you will achieve
you take today. achieve the results you want. If you are
already on a track heading towards
goals cannot be reached, what you set out to do, and by having 7. Laugh it off your goals then look at what you have
don’t adjust the goals, absolute clarity about what you want
and why you want it, stress of time is
The difference between a winner and
an average person is in their way of
done so far. Pick out the few steps
you’ve taken that had the biggest
adjust the action steps.” lifted. You will enjoy the journey that thinking. Most people take their mistakes impact in your progress then throw
leads up to your goals. Achieving your and failures personally. Winners are able yourself wholly behind those actions
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goals and dreams are your truth. to laugh at their failures and choose that will bring you towards achieving
et me start by making Believe in them. Believe in you. Believe to learn from their past mistakes and your goals.
things Crystal Clear: a) it to be true, and in time, it will be. failures. Expect to make mistakes and The bottom line is this: your goals
To think that this year will fail this year. Expect it every month, and dreams won’t get up and come to
be better than the last by 4. Make a Commitment week, and day. But do what winners do. you. You have to go and get them
continuing to do the same Life will throw you challenges left, right It’s not personal. On any given day, you
things all over again doesn’t and centre. If you think this year will be can wake up and make a decision. So
constitute for a sane way an easier one than the last, then think start laughing. You can contact Kevin Abdulrahman
of thinking; b) To think that again. You will face challenges this on his website at
having failed to achieve your goals and dreams year, in different shapes and forms, but 8. Get a Coach www.BestMotivationalSpeaker.Me
last year because they were too big for you to whether they hold you back or not will Get yourself a coach/mentor. All too or contact Kevin Abdulrahman’s
achieve, and may be, just maybe, you should depend on the mindset you choose often you won’t be able to realise your Management Team on
make them more realistic, is absurd. to harbour from this point on. You can full potential unless you have someone info@kevinabdulrahman.com
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