2. Building healthy relationships with co-workers is an important
part of having a successful career.
Co-workers spend ample amounts of time together, and
sometimes develop personal relationships on top of their
professional ones.
This can be good for businesses because it can help
companies create higher performance in the workplace.
In addition, very few companies have their employees work
100% independently
Cecilia Harry. “We rely on others to contribute support,
expertise, and other resources to best meet the needs of a
client, fulfill the mission of the agency, or create a profit,”
Because everyone has their role to play in a company, it is
important for everyone to get along – not just for the sake of
the work environment, but for the sake of the company and
its success, too.
3. “When it comes to building relationships with your
co-workers, be open and honest,” said Harry.
We must encourage people to be honest with
their co-workers to get to know them better in
order to work better as a team about
› having a social relationship and
› communicate
“Some people see work as a place to show up,
do what they are supposed to do, and go
home,”
“Others see it as a place to spend half of their
waking life and an opportunity to build social
relationships.”
4. Sometimes being open and honest about
building a relationship with co-worker won’t
get you the response you are looking for.
However, don’t completely write-off someone
who isn’t interested in building a relationship.
“Even if they don’t want to engage and build
a friendly or social relationship, you may end
up excluding them or devaluing them, and
that ends up creating a negative relationship
and possibly hurting the company,”
“Instead, be sure to keep them in the
communication loop and still offer assistance
and support to work-related tasks.”
5. Some people might now know an appropriate way
to build a good relationship with a fellow employee.
“I encourage individuals to take a look at the
company’s culture and use that as one of the factors
to inform their decision regarding if and how to
engage co-workers outside of regular work
activities,” said Harry.
If you’re unsure about inviting a co-worker to grab
some dinner after work, or go out for a cricket game
over the weekend, why not start small and ask them
out to cup of tea or even a Paan ?
You don’t have a whole lot to lose and if you have a
good time it can become a regular thing and help
you grow as co-workers.
6. For some, it can be a little awkward to get to know a
complete stranger.
However, at one point most of the people who we
consider close friends were strangers to us at one
point.
This can provide some relief if you are feeling uneasy
about befriending a co-worker you don’t know.
“Another way to make this a little easier is to focus on
an interest you both have in common,”
“Perhaps you both like dogs, went to the same
college, watch the same TV show, or have a
grandchild . This common interest can be a good
foundation for a positive relationship.”
7. Though it might be easier to build a relationship with a co-worker
who holds the same working status as you, it
doesn’t mean you can’t try to build a relationship with a
co-worker who outranks you – or even one you outrank –
in the company.
“Mentor relationships in the workplace benefit both
parties,” said Harry, “and the company gains when more
employees are engaged and supporting each other.”
Ranks in companies do change.
The person who was once in charge of you may not be if
you’re someone who plans on growing within the
company.
If the ranks between co-workers are reversed, having
already established a positive relationship makes the
transition run more smoothly